There’s a tendency in this community that a lot of guys position themselves value wise beneath a girl they find attractive. They then approach the woman with that set of starting belief. Now you’re probably anticipating that I’m going to say this is wrong or doesn’t work.
The fact is that this mindset actually has worked and probably will work – but is it emotionally healthy for you, now that’s an entirely different issue. Most guys begin in this community learning some tactics and routines, they then go and use it on some girls in a bar, and they get immediate reactions (a laugh, a giggle or a smile).
For a chode this is like a freaking revelation. He then connects the success he has now achieved with the routines/tactics he’s been using, which just reinforces the belief that most of us started out with.
A common misconception in our community is that state is this explosion of energy. It’s one form of being in state. But there’s also another form, as Jeffy describes it, the hot searing coal state.
The difference between ADD-state and the more chill state is that usually ADD-state won’t last the entire night and very difficult to maintain without constant stimulation. The issue is that while reaching a high point feels great and you’re so outside your head, you will eventually hit a crash point at some point. And usually that happens when it’s pull time! Most guys pump themselves up hardcore early on in the night, and experience a mega state crash later on.
Happened During Summer 2010
Night started off a bit meh.. I came about 1hour late, so I had to hear Lorian complain about that for a bit. We went to the pony bar.
and meetup with George, who Lorian met a previous night. George looked like the poor man’s version of Vinnie Chase from the hit tv-show Entourage.
Needless to say George allready had some skills with the ladies and those skills would be put to a test at the end of the night.
One thing that many people tend to forget is physicality. Without physicality aka. kino you can have the tightest verbal game and yet fail to get the girl.