I’m writing this from my room. The weather sucks.
So I thought I would drop a little tid bit of thoughts here.

A lot of people who are coming into pickup are just plain weird. Let’s be honest here.

I know 90% of guys doing this are just plain messed up. Some even get more messed up by joining the community.

They go from weird to creepy.

One of the reasons is that

One of the most important element  in a interaction is “to screen”.

Why screen?

Well if you are looking for some love in the night with her. You want to know she is available.

Screening is going to cut out a lot of bullshit and quickly let you know if the girl is DTF or not. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve been burned because I didn’t screen.

Self-improvement here, self-improvement there. The market is full with books and audio tapes trying to convince you, that they have the answer on how to improve your life. Either it be financially, socially or dating.

I believe we all get too caught up in the whole self-improvement movement. But I guess it is inevitable when you start out in this community, you just want to read it all, know it all, you’re a sponge that just wants to sucks as much knowledge as humanly possible.

One thing that many people tend to forget is physicality. Without physicality aka. kino you can have the tightest verbal game and yet fail to get the girl.

Sit down and think about that, wouldn’t it be wierd for the girl that you’ve talked to her for like a hour, and then you try to make out with her, out of the blue?

I’m gonna give a personal example of a text conversation where a girl is completely cold towards me, where I just plow through her shit test, spark a emotional reaction and get her to come out with me.